5. We go for the alpha males.
Gottlieb: "In cities where you find a lot of really ambitious, Type A, driven people, like in NYC and L.A., with the entertainment business and Wall Street…you get a lot of 'maximizers' [people who keep looking over their shoulder for something better]. Maximizer women date maximizer men. They will be just as picky in a bad and unhealthy way. The men who are actually available and wanting commitment and who are smart and funny and cute-maybe one guy is a little bit shorter, so he's not getting the women. Maybe he's not smooth initially o r in big groups, but he is one-on-one. These are the kind of people who when you're 35, 45, 55, that you'll be happy with when you're married, and the guy who is super ch arming at the party and has the crowd of women around him, maybe he's not going to make as good of a husband. Maybe he's not going to call you back. That guy is going to be judgmental and picky, and who wants that?"