The word "moderation" speaks, first, of spiritual balance and stability, like a "moderator" brings two opposing sides to a balance in a discussion. Spiritual stability is the ability to maintain calm inner peace and composure, regardless of circumstances, to resist becoming overwhelmed by stress, and to rise above feelings. How one responds to problems, Satan's temptations, financial pressures, debilitating illnesses, or unpleasant persecutions, is a testimony to others. Don't give in to despair or the nervous fear of anxiety.
Second, Self-control. Not only does the word refer to balance, but a balance that demonstrates itself in the ability to control oneself. "Moderation" means self-control or self-restraint. What is the natural tendency when one is blindsided by trouble? How would you be prone to react if someone said something harsh and unkind to you? The most natural reaction is to demand one's own rights, to assert oneself, to defend oneself. Most people "fly off the handle," or "fall to pieces," or "blow up," or "lose control." The verbal assault bruises the ego. The victim feels violated, hurt, and offended. He may either retreat within himself and nurse his wounds in self-pity, or he may retaliate in an agressive display of self-will and self-protection.
Life should be stable in balance,not only in spirit but also substance. Do you agree? If you are interested, pls dont hesitate to attend the Salon on Firday night.
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