这个问题朋友这两年来问我不止三次了.她和我是同年,两年前结了婚,嫁了个监理工程师,在工地上的时间远比在家的时间多,她不用给他做饭,不用给他洗衣服,60%的晚上都在外应酬,还经常在国内出差,两个人在一起的时间很少,我常说她结婚和没结婚没什么区别.

今天中午到她家,碰上她老公在家,她又问了起来.
“Rita,你对男朋友有什么要求啊?”她老公问道.
“是啊,Rita,他想给你物色男朋友呢.快说,要什么条件的?”朋友又在一旁边帮嘴.
“没什么要求呀.饺子皮你看是买这种形状的吗?方形的是云吞皮不是饺子皮吧?”我急忙转移话题.
“是不是太多个了?明天情人节,和哪个一起过?”她老公追问.
“哪有啊!像我这种人谁要啊?**,你看三根大葱够不够?**,明天准备买多少支玫瑰给你老婆?她向我投恕说你都没给她买过玫瑰.”好不容易才成功地把话题转开了!
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I think about the question that her husband asked at noon after being back to my residence. Is it true that I don’t have any expectation on future BF or future husband? I do, and I guess most girls do have. But I think I am not ready to be married, and I am even not ready being into a serious relationship.
I am afraid of marriage, just as what one friend said in her file.

明天就是西方的情人节了.
愿有情人甜蜜,今天仍单身的朋友明天会有收获,喜欢单身的朋友有个好心情.^_^