End of August, I attended a party named Peng Cheng Date(鹏城约会) with three friends.I would not like to attend that party not all,but that three friends had free checks(the party was free to people having ID card of Jianxi province that evening) and they asked me to accompany with them strongly,since I gave them information of the party.

About ten minutes after the party began, a man military officer went to our group and looked around with asking the question: does everybody here want to make friends or want to find someone to be married? If just wanting to make friends,forget it;I come here for making girl friend that wants to be married.No one in our group reponsed to him. And then he left our group.This guy impressed me so badly!

At 10:30pm, we four were going to leave. When I went to the front table at the hall gate returning my card to one of the organizer,the said guy followed me to the gate,asking me give him my mobine phone number to him. To avoid making him in embarrassment in public,I gave him my cyber name, but he said he had no time to be online,and keeped asking for my mobine phone number.After returning the card, I went back to the hall,where my friends were waiting for me at the depository.Before I took back my bag from the depository, the guy came in and gave me a note. In view of so many people in the depository noticing his behavior, I opened the note and went through it, then shook hand with him before leaving. With shaking hand, he was still following me and asking me for number again and again. Since many people were looking at us and my friends were urging me,I just wanted to get rid of him as early as possible,I gave him my number.

In the following two days, he kept calling me with his mobine phone and telephone, but I didn't answer any time. Then he sent me message and asked me out for dinner. In order to make things clear and avoid wasting our time, I replied him with telling him a lie: I appologize for my unpolite behavoir the past days,but I would like to tell you one thing that I have already had a boyfriend, I went to the party just for being accompanied with my friends, no other reason. After receipt of the message, he stopped calling,only sending messages once a week.But I never replied to them.

He really impressed me badly at the first communication, I even don't want to be his friend, don't mention being his girl friend!